Carolina Girl

Words of a Twenty-Something

Tuesday, November 29, 2005

Old Flame Stikes Again!

Old Flame is back to his tricks again. (See previous post here) Old Flame always come in and out of my life whenever he feels the need. Usually pops in whenever he knows I am happy and doing great. That also means whenever I am in a relationship with someone or casually seeing someone. NEVER does he come around whenever I am single and alone. That would just be too easy.

So over Thanksgiving break, he comes into town. I run into him at a mutal friend's house. I don't really speak to him...just the casual 'hi' and 'goodbye'. Well that doesn't seem to be enough for him. Old Flame decides he wants me back in his life. He KNOWS I am seeing HotBoston but he doesn't care. Here is the convo we had on text messaging. He couldn't even talk to me in person about this.

Old Flame: Leave HotBoston and be with me
Me: Why? You ALWAYS do this!! Everytime I am with someone you do this! Why do you even want to be with me?!
Old Flame: Just a feelin I have
Me: You always try to suck me back in whenever I am over the whole situation
Old Flame: What do I have to do? I am more mature now and I know what I want
Me: I don't know. I like HotBoston & he treats me better than you ever did and he isn't even my boyfriend!
Old Flame: Well think about it...

What I am I suppose to think about this!!?!? I hate him for always putting me in this situation. He knows I have a weakness for him and he plays on it. I need to be strong this time. Hopefully, having the time of my life with HotBoston will help me.

Monday, November 28, 2005

From Break Ups to No Make Ups

Talan FINALLY came to his senses and called off his engagement to the ugly Kim Stewart! I am so happy for him. Who would want to live a life with that thing? I know I am harsh...

Over the Thanksgiving holiday, I heard Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey also called it quits. This saddens me because I liked them together. I think we all knew it was coming eventually. She was blowing up and becoming more famous everyday while he sat in the shadows. Who knows. Maybe they'll work it out and get back together.

Thursday, November 24, 2005

What Part of Thanksgiving are You?

You Are Pumpkin Pie
Even when people are full - they make room for you.Good or bad, your smell is most likely to arouse a man.

I like that!

Happy Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! I love today because it's one of those days I have an excuse to eat as much as I want. Yeah, I'll probably gain like 10 million pounds, but who cares. Here are some things I am thankful for this year:

1. I am healthy and well
2. My friends and family are healthy and well
3. My close friends and the friendship I have with them
4. My awesome dog
5. I don't live in a communist country (grateful my parents left Cuba & I have never had to experience that kind of life)
6. I can speak my mind
7. I can free to do anything I want
8. My future is bright
9. My education
10. Christmas shopping & sales
11. The ability to move on from the ex and be okay
12. TV, radio, cell phones, etc.
13. Thanksgiving break from school and work
14. Life

Monday, November 21, 2005

A Little Too Forward?

The more and more HotBoston and I hang out, the heavier and heavier the make-out sessions get. We have not "gone to Brazil" yet but I would say it will happen sometime soon. The other night I spent the night at his apartment and the only thing that stopped us from heading to Brazil was that he didn't have a condom. You know how disppointing that situation is when it comes up, but I love myself so no Brazil without a condom. He looked so embarassed to tell me he didn't have one, but he explained that he hadn't had sex with a girl in a while so he just didn't have any. Which is a good thing. He's not a whore....hahaha.

So my question is, is it too forward to carry some myself or maybe even buy him some? I know it's the 2000's and all but I just feel weird since I have never had to think about carrying/buying condoms. The other men I have been with have always been prepared.

So what do you think? Too forward?

Saturday, November 19, 2005


So I found out the other day that Talan from Laguna Beach is engaged to Kimberly Stewart! What the hell is he thinking?!!? She has to be one of the ugliest people I have ever seen in my life! Supposedly they have been "dating" for only 2 months! The only thing smart about this "engagement" is that she is loaded, so Talan would never have to worry.

All I know is if Kim Stewart can get a man, there is hope for everyone else...

Monday, November 14, 2005

Laguna Finale

I just got done watching the Laguna Beach Season 2 finale and I gotta say that it was a little tear jerker. I remember those days when I was a senior in high school and I was about to leave for college ("the real world").

I was an emotional wreck just like Kristen. I didn't know my life without all my close friends that I had pretty much spent my whole life with. It's funny now because I only talk to like 2 of those friends now, and to tell you the truth we don't even talk that often. We're just all at different points of our lives.

I also was surprised to hear that Laguna Beach will be going into its 3rd season. I always thought Kristen was the star of the show (even though I still love L.C.) and in the sneak peek for the next season, Kristen was not even mentioned. You could definitely tell that the new girls will be more dramatic than previous seasons. They were your typical high school drama girls. It should be interesting...

I am excited to see L.C.'s new show The Hills premiere. I have always liked L.C. and it should be interesting to see her in L.A. and her internship at Teen Vogue. I am such a dork, but I don't think I can wait til spring/summer for these shows to premiere.

Anyway, it's back to studying for me...I know...the life of a boring college senior...hahaha

Mr. Blunt, how you've made my day

So B had a post this month about a wonderful man named James Blunt....I just downloaded some of his music and he is AWESOME! Talk about an amazing voice and deep lyrics. His new single "You're Beautiful" puts a smile on any girl's face! Very refreshing!

Soooo Funny!!

Check this out! This guy is HILARIOUS!!!

Thursday, November 10, 2005

Everything has been great...

Everything has been great these past few weeks! I have been really busy with PRSSA, school, and work, so I know I have been slack on doing any new posts.

HotBoston and I are still hanging out. I really like him. It's so chill when we hang out and all we do is have a good time.I've never "dated" a guy who just didn't have a care and just had fun. I like that about HotBoston. His motto is "We're not here for a long time, we're here for a good time." I also like that he's HOTT and has a good personality. That's rare to find. Usually, it's one or the other. He scores major points in Tasha's book. I still don't want anything serious though (I just got out of a long relationship), but I am kind of getting the feeling he is feeling a little more for me. He hasn't said it, but the little things he does or the way he looks at me says it all. I don't know...I am not going to make a big deal of it.

Ex-Boyfriend and I have become friends. It's weird but it's working. He was trying his hardest for a while to get me back, but I finally just told him it wasn't going to happen (anytime soon or anything.) He understod and realizes he can't change the way I feel. He is happy (or so he says) having me as his friend. Better to have something than nothing at all is what he said to me. Whatever, as long as he doesn't get all psycho/weird on me.

School is getting down to the wire. Thanksgiving break is coming up so my professors are piling it on hard. I can't wait til the semester is over. I LOVE Christmas! It's my fav holiday. I love the smells, food, colors, music, etc. Hoepfully this Christmas will be cold. Right now we're in 80 degree weather!! Yeah, it's weird!